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The state of Illinois to force another handicapped care facility to close.

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

I just today gave you a link to Becca’s day program, RRAF. Well come the end of April they will have to close their doors if things don’t change in the next few weeks. Temporarily we hope but possibly permanently. Why after over twenty years of service will they be forced to close?

THE STATE OF ILLINOIS OWES THEM 118,000.00 DOLLARS IN BACK PAY FOR SERVICES RENDERED. We have heard Quinn on the news; the state of Ill has no intention of paying any of us. On top of that he proposes to cut what the state will pay to anyone who cares for the handicapped by 2.5% in next years budget. Also believe it or not, the state will make expedited payments to 31U or 31A type service programs IF they have exhausted all sources of income. This just doesn’t mean that you have zero in the bank but also that you have exhausted all types of available loans and are in debt up to your eyeballs and over your head.  Basically Governor Quinn wants every body to be as fiscally irresponsible as he and the other members of our lovely state government are.

So wonderful facilities like RRAF are being forced to shut their doors. You need to understand that the state medicaid money only funds two thirds of the cost of each person attending RRAF. Also that the state forbids RRAF to even ask us (the families) to make up the rest of the funds. Even still RRAF’s director, board, and parents have found ways to finish funding the program year after year. RRAF even had funds set aside for expansion of the program. They were looking into going residential as well as day. Those funds are now gone.They have been eaten away keeping RRAF’s doors open for this long while the State of Il. continued it’s whopping irresponsibility  to the tune of 118 THOUSAND DOLLARS.

I am only one small voice. Where is the outrage?  Why isn’t anybody using their influence to protect these who can’t speak for themselves. Oh that’s right all the people of “influence” are down state planning how to justify giving themselves another huge unnecessary raise after they fill up their favorite pork barrel.

Every year the same. The State of Ill takes every agency it can to the edge of bankruptcy watches while it drives some over the edge and then gives a sigh of relief that it will not have to share any of it’s funds with them in the upcoming year.  Do the state officials then share that funding amongst similar agencies who now have to take in those displaced by the closure of the “failed” agency? No they play politics as usual cut the funding for the service agencies still standing and say oh look surplus we can give ourselves another raise. Shame on them all.

I am Nancy Tally and this is what I see happening.

The Link to RRAF is on the new page “Places to find help and blessing”

Still riding at FTEA

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Today was the first day of riding back outside. They found easter eggs while riding and placed them in corresponding colored buckets. Sure is nice to have spring back. I just asked Becca how warm is it? She said warm, over ten degrees.

Doc, her horse is twenty-five years old today.

Equine Therapy

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Just found this unpublished draft. If I could loose some thing like this I am way to busy. Polished it up for you, there is a small amount of overlap with a January post but it still stands on it’s own.

There is very little good to say about the current economic downturn. But it did one thing for us. The wait list for equine therapy vanished and we were able to procure a spot with FTEA.

As we have shared before Becca loves horses even though her only exposure in the past had been five minute rides around a corral. Now she has a forty-five minute lesson once a week for fifteen weeks. What a stoic she is. How many people do you know who would go riding just a few hours after a root canal?  That was how her first lesson fell, right on top of a molar root canal.  She did not want to leave the stables and could talk of nothing but riding the whole night.  However, she said nary a word through her whole lesson and left her teachers stumped thinking she did not enjoy being there.

Root Canal Happy Face
Root Canal Happy Face

Here she is on Doc. He is the biggest and strongest horse FTEA owns. Becca is a hefty girl so she rides Doc every week. This particular week we took him carrotts and an apple to say thanks for being so patient.

That week it was raining so Becca’s lesson was inside.  This turned out to be a good thing. There are far less distractions in the barn and Becca’s attention sky rocketed. She opened up and used verbal commands as well as signs. We saw a delay in her comprehension time but a willingness to try to do everything asked. She even posted for the first time.
I was able to see a very rare sight. Becca was proud of what she was accomplishing and her face said to loud and clear. Wish I had my camera there.

A Chance To Support Special Olympics

Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

Through the years Becca has participated in Special Olympics; so have many of her friends, now they have a chance to give back.

On April 10 2010 @ 3:00p.m. 

 The STARS of College Church will be singing in 

“You Raise Me Up”

A fundraising concert for Special Olympics along with 

The NGOMA Group

Chicago a cappella  and

The GlenEllyn-Wheaton Chorale

Ticket info available at www.gewchorale.org or 630-415-3066

$10.oo per person or 5 for $40.00

I listened to practice tonite they are sounding good.

Think about coming it is shaping up to be a great time.

The program is Word Press

Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

I use Word Press, this is default theme 1.6 by Michael Heilemann. I wish I designed it. It’s wonderful it allows even someone like me, who is struggling to learn, to have success. I needed to resort to this post to answer you all because I haven’t conquered my sites e-mail yet. Every thing is bouncing back as undeliverable. I have been trying to contact some of you just be patient with me I’ll figure it out sooner or later. Till then there is always more than one way to achieve a goal. But my e-mail is another days learning problem. Gotta go hope this helps.

In the middle of a humungeous project.

Friday, March 12th, 2010

Besides our training to certify as service dog handlers: our video of Becca is the largest single block of time /effort we have to accomplish.  As I did not know anything about putting a video together this has been majorly stretching for me and taking way more time than the actual training will. In order to train Becca’s SD specific to her  and her needs 4Paws for Ability needs a window into her life.  We have been video taping Becca for a year now. Sorting through it all and pulling out the things 4Paws is looking for has been a challenge.  They have four pages of questions. I am finding it is taking about an hour of video per page. Half is done. The interviews about what the family knows about dogs, past experiences good and bad, what we like and dislike in  a dog are all done. How Becca interacts with animals, her fears, is she appropriate or does she poke into eyes and ears or go for tails done as well.

They want to see what activities is she involved in? That took a whole hour of video in itself just covering her weekly, monthly and yearly activities. Pulling tons of 15 -30 second clips together so 4Paws could see the kind of crowds we would be taking the SD into, and to hear the noise levels of these situations.  Took a few hours after preparing that video to engage in my own little pity party. We do so much to keep her busy! It is no wonder I have no life of my own!

Well drop the pity party because now I have another problem. This third disk will not save and burn. Seems that I cannot put materials from three different cameras into the same video. Especially when some are avi and some mpg.   AAGGHH!!  Well I wasted a day trying to make it work and hubby has used another day to convert mpg to avi and guess what? That’s right it still won’t save or burn. Hm-mm, I thought I had a hard time learning to blog. Speaking about learning to blog my son updated my google browser and the next day all they side bar information on  Becca’s Dream was gone. I had entered her site through that log in for so long I had forgotten how  to get here any other way. I was locked off of the blog for a week. But that’s OK, I am learning more about my computer the web and my blog everyday and getting much practice in learning to control my tongue. Last week I was yelling at my computer and realized Becca was sitting at my elbow. Oopps! Time to reclean the mouth and make appologies.

I actually missed not getting time or beong able to log on to do this. But learning to make a video is good. So I’m grayer than I was four weeks ago. And Ok I have less hair because I have been pulling it out in frustration. My mouse is also worse for wear because of my frustration in fact I am surprised it still works. Some friends and I said it would be cute to have one that squeaks and scampers away if you smack it down on the desk top. Well so much for my technology woes. Excuse me for not working on the grammer today been down with the flu. But as I was instructed on how to get back onto the site I wanted to shout out to you all.

Go! Go! Go! US Olympic teams!

Sunday, February 14th, 2010

Becca is really into cheering on the Olympians. However, she believes doing so should be a team sport. She kept calling for her dad to come see this or come watch that. No breaks allowed for us while she was watching the games. She has even verbalised that we must watch as a team. It was interesting to see her understanding of competition during the Nordic combined. I watched as her body tensed up while she watched the end of the race and cheered loudly. Yeah USA!

Comments on August posts

Saturday, October 17th, 2009

I was just reviewing the posts and thought to update you on two items.

When Becca was in the hospital, 8-1 post, we found out that the pharmacist on duty was a friend. He filled the order for 3000 mg of Keppra for Becca, which was being sent to the ER, and knew she was in trouble. We are grateful for his on the spot prayers for her.

In missing Becca not the noise I had voiced concern about the new style of camp this year. After talking with Becca and her friends, and at length with the camp director we are all of the opinion that this change is a very good thing.  Becca had a blast! Even more so than in previous years. One of the many problems we have faced through the years is not having places were there are roll models of appropriate behaviors for a given situation. When you are consistently isolated to a group of people who do not know any better than you, it is harder to grow in social skills.  Well, the handicapped group was not the only group being challenged. The ” normal” kids were growing this summer as well. The director tells of one little girl who had the most objections to having the handicapped group at camp. At first it was easy to be horrified by this child’s attitudes. But as the story unfolds and I heard of the child’s fears of the unknown of those people who were so different than her my heart softened. As I was told of her initial attempts at swallowing her fear and finding the courage to reach out to someone who made her feel totally uncomfortable I found myself cheering for her. It was utterly delightful to know that by the end of camp she was championing her new friends and actively seeking to include them in the days activities. 

Oohh(sigh) that all prejudice in this world could be so easily overcome. Walcamp has been there for years supporting all kinds of kids. This new venture, though very scary even to us, is going to be a blessing on so many levels. May it’s growing pains be few.

VOTE FOR RAFE WORLD’S CUTEST DOG

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

HELP FOUR PAWS PROVIDE SERVICE DOGS FOR THE HANDICAPPED. JUST VOTE FOR RAFE!

Our Rafe is the newborn pup sleeping soundly under the  gray stuffed dog’s ear.

> From: support@cutestdogcompetition.com
> To: karen4paws@aol.com
> Sent: 8/16/2009 1:41:37 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time
> Subj: Rafe is entered into Round 3 of the Million Dollar Cutest Dog
> Competition [1208]
>
> Rafe,
>
> You did so well in Round 2 that we automatically entered you into Round 3
> of the Million Dollar Cutest Dog Competition. All votes from the previous
> week are now zeroed out and you have seven days to get as many votes as you
> can in Round 3. Reach out to your friends and family using the following
> networking tools and ask them to vote for you once a day – they may even
> have ideas on how to get you more votes! Some common ways to get more votes
> are to send an email blast to all your family and friends with a direct link
> to your entry, post on Facebook, post on MySpace, write a blog, post a
> comment on our blog at www.cutestdogcompetition.com/blog, tape a flyer to
> your pet store wall, put an ad on your website. If you don’t win this week,
> don’t worry, there are still 9 more weekly chances to get the most votes and
> win. Remember, everybody starts with zero votes on Saturday.
>
> Here is a direct link to your photo:
> *
> http://www.cutestdogcompetition.com/vote.cfm?h=31291EF331F002A00DFD683FC951E674
> *
>
> LInk to social networking tools which provide 1-click buttons to promote
> youself and get lots of votes:
>
> http://www.cutestdogcompetition.com/thankyou.cfm?h=31291EF331F002A00DFD683FC951E674
>
> All the dogs are talking about Grrr-nola, the new yummy Heart Healthy,
> Veterinarian Recommended Dog Food at http://www.aapbrands.com
>
> Best of luck in the contest,
>
> Contest Support
> support@cutestdogcompetition.com
>
>
>
> ——————————
>
>

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