FTEA & New Hair style = added confidence.

In many ways things seem to be falling in place for Becca. 

Ever since she started therapeutic riding at FTEA in the fall of 2009 we have seen her confidence blossom and grow.

FTEA first day 9-3-09

FTEA first day 9-3-09

Listing to the left

Listing to the left

Her left side weakness is obvious in these photos from her first day. Her side walkers were exhausted. The walker on the right had to pull on her gait belt the whole time and the walker on the left had to constantly shove her back into the saddle. At one point it appeared she might just fall off altogether. It was all the walkers could do to keep her upright.  Everyone thought Becca did not enjoy riding because while she made some grimacing faces there were no real smiles.  Little did they know, Becca’s enthusiasm ran so high that she  had chosen to go riding even though just a few hours earlier she had had a unplanned root canal. Her novocain had worn off and yet she made me hang around and watch the next group of riders.  She was so excited, Becca flat out refused to leave. For days she talked of nothing else but “Doc” and how she was able to ride on him.

Only one month later

Only one month later

Every week the other parents, who also had first time riders, and I would stand about and watch in amazement at the changes in our children. From week to week we could see them get physically stronger, sit taller, participate more. We would all three cheer loudly for each new accomplishment in any of the children, often asking did you see your daughter/son do that ?

For Becca the biggest growth issues have been confidence and the ability to finally process her thoughts into speech.  We went from having a daughter basically locked with in herself, who did nothing for herself, never stood up for herself and whose only language consisted of echolalia and perseverated speech; to a daughter who had a whole new world and life opening before her. Previously if Becca was hungry she would stand in the kitchen and stare at the fridge or the toaster and wait until someone noticed and asked if she was hungry and then fixed her something.  I was stunned the first day she went out ,opened up the fridge, then the freezer, and chose an ice cream bar. I inquired “what are you doing?”  She replied ”I would like an ice cream.” I told her good choice and asked her to please close the freezer and ask first next time. The next time she asked and of course I said yes. She has asked for many small things since then and we have accommodated about 99% of them. With each yes her confidence grew and our amazement grew as we were finally seeing glimpses of  what was locked inside our child all these years

a first attemt at posting

a first attempt at posting

Tall in the saddle at five weeks

Tall in the saddle at five weeks

In the intervening three months we have been marveling at her vocabulary, at the things she is curious about, at the odd things she notices while we are driving and at the connections she makes between places, people and music. Her sentences are now complex and expressing independent thought. Last night, she was for the first time, voluntarily answering multiple questions in her music program. The directors were visibly surprised as were her peers. We have all been long accustomed to her refusal to participate verbally in anyway.
On to the hair. A month ago we purchased a professional hair straightener and have changed her hair style.  She loves it. You can tell because she has that little peacock strut going on and walks around flipping her hair about. As soon as the hair was straightened she started trying out her big words, slowy at first but frequently now. I find her vocabulary both amazing and amusing. I have been kicking myself for not writing down the first things she said for I have managed to forget them all. Oh and yes she is starting to stand up for herself; at least by telling on those who are hurting her at her day program even though she has not yet told anyone to their face to leave her alone.
Now the hair ties in to FTEA because before she started riding she always walked with her head down. Thus we could never leave her hair loose and down as it was always in her face obstructing her vision and in her mouth, eyes and nose. You can check out my second article for more info on finally walking upright in the next post More FTEA Miracles

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